A white therapist working out what it means to be white.

Month September 2022

How to be a sh*tty white friend. 

It’s me. I’m that friend. I wish I had video of the experience. Maybe I could replay it and get a better understanding of who I was in that moment. Taking video when I witness undisguised and blatant mistreatment because of… Continue Reading →

That Black Man You See… He’s Twelve. 

It seems it was a short time ago that my son was an infant – soft and small – his tiny body easily cradled in my arms. Just last week he turned 12. He stands taller than me and is… Continue Reading →

Why do you make everything about race? 

I hear you ask this question a lot. Often, when I take the time and energy to answer it, you’re another white person and our context is that of in relationship  —  we know and love one another. When you… Continue Reading →

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